Ten tips from a Supreme Court judge dealing with family dispute courts

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• Do not encourage your son or wife to stay on the same roof as you.
• It is better to suggest them to rent a house and move out.
• Finding a separate home is their problem.
• It’s good for the relationship between you and your children

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• Consider your son’s wife to be your son’s wife, not your own daughter, Consider her a friend.
• Your son is always your son, but you should not assume that his wife is in the same position.
• If you ever scold her, she will remember it for the rest of her life.
• In real life, she may not see you as someone who deserves to be scolded or corrected.
• She does not see you as her mother.

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• Whatever habits or shortcomings your son’s wife has, it’s not your problem, it’s your son’s problem.
• This is not your problem as he is an adult.

4

• Explain their work to each other while living with them,
• No need to wash their clothes or cook for them.
• Let them raise their children according to their will.
• Your son’s wife thinks they have special abilities and you should not expect anything in return
• Most Importantly, you do not have to worry about your son’s family problems. Let them decide for themselves.

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• Pretend to be blind and deaf when arguing with your son and wife. It is not uncommon for young couples to dislike their parents’ involvement in marital disputes.

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• Your grandchildren belong entirely to your son and wife. They want to raise their children, It owes it to them.

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• Your son’s wife does not have to respect and serve you, It is the duty of the son.
• For the relationship between you and your son’s wife to be good, you must teach your son to be a better person.

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• Plan more for your retirement life,
• Do not rely on your children for your care.
• You have already gone through the hard ways in your life, there is still a lot to learn on the journey.

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• Enjoying your retirement life is in your own interest.
• It is better to be able to use and enjoy everything you have saved before you die, Do not let your wealth be of use to you.

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• Grandchildren are not part of your family, They are a precious gift from their parents.

Please note

• * This message is not just for you. *
• Based on the life experience of a * judge * who has handled family disputes courts
• Please share this with your friends, parents, nieces, nephews, aunts, husband or wife to find peace and progress in life.

Originally published at https://www.technologypickle.com on September 5, 2020.